1) How did you become an Episcopalian? I found the Episcopal Church through the woman minister who married my husband and me. She was a UCC minister at the time, 1985. I went to her church for the wedding of a friend of mine and really liked the service. So, when we decided to get married we went to see that minister. My husband was a divorced Roman Catholic and did not want to go through the hassle of an annulment. I thought the whole annulment stuff was silly, so was happy to go to the UCC church. Anyway, over the course of 6 months of premarital counseling (she was also a social worker)she got to know us well. In the end she suggested that if we ever wanted to become members of a church we ought to consider the Episcopal Church. She had been raised in that church (and is now an Episcopal Priest having left the UCC church, actually having been wooed back to the ECUSA by the Bishop of this diocese). So, the short story is, the woman minister who married us recommended the Episcopal Church and before long we were active members…I laugh when I see that minister now, I say, “Molly, look what you did! Not only did you marry me but you brought me into the church which ultimately lead me to ordained ministry…who would have thought!” She laughs and says, “it wasn’t me, it was the Holy Spirit…” Years later I tended to her mother as she lay dying in a nursing home. This home was close to me while Molly had moved a few hours away. They called me and I was able to stay with the mother for quite awhile, until Molly came. I felt honored to return the favor, if you will.
2) What was the most important thing you learned from your refugee visitors? This family of five from Rwanda came with barely a suitcase per person, their entire life in a few bags. They were shell shocked and unable to speak the language, tired. But on their last day with us we exchanged gifts. I gave them scooters and soccer balls left over from my kids. They gave me a small hand made picture of multi-colored wheat glued to a small wood board. The bread of life. They came with nothing but they came bearing gifts of gratitude. It taught me to grateful and that the smallest thing can be a gift of joy. It was a lesson in humility – of mutual sharing and giving. They were a strong family with much to share despite the little they had. We should do as much with all that we have!
3) What book or movie has changed or shaped your life most profoundly (besides The Bible) This is a difficult question. I read a lot and I watch a lot of movies….and many good ones. A book I read a long time ago began a process of change in me: Gloria Steinhem’s “Revolution from Within”… it’s a book about finding one’s self, one’s voice. I have also been deeply shaped by Elaine Pagels “The Origin of Satan” which takes a good hard look at how Christianity has shaped the sad tendency to demonize the “other”. And I think movies like, “As Good as it Gets” and “Freedom Writers” have influenced me. One because it speaks to the desperation we feel and our inability to connect with what we want and finally our ability to realize that this is as good as it gets, and that’s ok. The other because it speaks about sticking with a passion and seeing it through.
4) What was your favorite pastime as a child? I moved a lot so my past times changed from place to place. In Salt Lake City I had an apricot tree in the back yard. I loved to climb the tree with a good book, read the book and eat fresh apricots. In Idaho I loved to run in the alfalfa fields and play in the barns. In Wisconsin I wandered the small stretch of woods and tall grasses at the edge of my backyard.
5) Where would you go for your dream vacation? Money no object. I’d tour the Cathedrals of England, go to Iona, Ireland, and Scotland. Then I’d head down through France and into Italy. I’d also like to go to Egypt and tour the pyramids.
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